Mental Load

Most couples spend years feeling tension around this area of their relationship.

Almost none of them ever actually measure it. You're about to.

M

Planning, remembering, list-making, and decision making.

E

Ongoing cause-and-effect calculations to support the people you love.

P

Doing the tasks. Like washing dishes, mowing the lawn, making the call, or driving the kid.

Shared load split

Move each slider toward the person carrying more of that part of the load.

Mental Load 50%

Who does more of the planning, remembering, list-making, and decision making?

Mostly Partner TwoEqualMostly Partner One

Emotional Load 50%

Who carries more of the concern, worry, emotional anticipation, and people-impact thinking?

Mostly Partner TwoEqualMostly Partner One

Physical Load 50%

Who does more of the visible hands-on work?

Mostly Partner TwoEqualMostly Partner One